Two Scenes

A friend said that he has a kid; an adopted boy from Ethiopia. Here is what he told me about his kid:

"We went to Ethiopia to find a boy. There were a lot of problems as we had to be in contact with certain agencies which are active in this field. Anyways, it is a really nice feeling. There is a big contrast as he is totally black and we are white. Now he is 3 years old and speaks Spanish and Catalan. It was a little bit difficult for him at the begining coz he had to get our culture. Now, after three years, everything is fine and we feel quite good about it. You know, it is a quite different feeling when you have a kid. I mean everything is directed to him; the whole life. For entertainment, we go to parks, shows,... together. We really enjoy our life.
And we are planing to adopt another kid. We'll get there again within one month and ..."

Well, here is another scene:
According to The Japan Journal (based on a report from National Women's Education Center of Japan), Japanese fathers spend an average of 3.1 hours per weekday with their children (Korean's got the worst place with 2.8 hours).

So, ...